Thank you for the uplifting and supportive comments from my 1:1 styling session with Allison! If you are looking to book your own styling appointment, for reference I chose the one hour Facetime styling session + links. The day after our session, Allison emailed me her list of recommended shoes with links. I asked specifically for a list of pointy toed boots, so here is the list she sent me:
ACNE STUDIOS patent trimmed leather ankle boot
REIKE NEN slim line ankle boots
ESSEN glove boot
JIL SANDER ankle boots
ST. AGNI hanne boot in black
I had one goal in mind while packing for my New Orleans trip last June:
Pack only what I will wear on the trip, including accessories.
Months before the trip, I was warned of the humidity, the mugginess, and the stifling heat of the Gulf Coast.
But as someone who thrives in new environments and feels particularly inspired by travels, I saw trip this as an opportunity to achieve two objectives: 1) bring only what I need and 2) stay as cool as possible.
The weather in New Orleans read a low of 79 degrees Fahrenheit to a high of 90 degrees Fahrenheit between Sunday the 23rd and Wednesday the 26th, which isn’t bad, considering it IS summer. But with the average humidity being between 74 and 77.5% (with the highest I’ve seen at around 88% at night), I was eager to pack outfits that were breathable, and light, but still timeless and appropriate for dinners and gatherings. I love Amy Smilovic’s cooking analogy when discussing how and what she packs for her trips. One other inspiration that came to mind was Joan Didion’s incredibly minimal, but iconic essential packing list:
What I could see about Joan Didion’s list was how she made everything she packed work for her so that she could seamlessly transition into her routine as a writer. And I have to say, there is something so illuminating about packing a singular bag for travels.
I used packing cubes


I can only fit one small and one medium packing cube into my Calpak luggage. As for my Celine belt, I wrap it around the inner edge of the suitcase interior.
I chose a lightweight bag to accompany my carry on bag…

…without forgetting (this time!) a packable hat. And I always bring a smaller bag (crossbody or shoulder) with me on my travels for a more convenient option when shopping. On this trip, I had my small Jil Sander Tangle crossbody inside the straw bag.
I am definitely A) a sleeper when it comes to long hours on the road/in air or B) a reader. I always bring a paper copy, no hardbacks, because again, convenience.
I chose clothes that are breathable, don’t take up much space, and can be worn in multiple ways
This is what I wore on rotation:
Oversized, but fitted colored cotton pant (I can’t find it online, but it’s from the brand IRO). Here is a reference photo:
What I am especially proud of is how none of these pieces are too bulky or heavy:



Skincare essentials are separated into two small pouches
During my travels, I use two bags; one pouch for makeup, and another double sided travel make up case that houses teas, electrolyte powders, eyedrops, my Retin-A cream, toothpaste/toothbrush, everything for a nightly routine. I always separate nightly routine items from makeup. For me, winding down for the evening is a relaxing ritual, something that is mentally calming as I get ready for bed after a stimulating day.


I pack a third smaller makeup bag to hold the bare minimum of make up products for when I go out


I actually love staying in hotels, so the first thing I like to do is settle in as if it were my own bedroom, starting with the bathroom after checking in:

My shoe bag with an extra pair of shoes go inside the inner zippered compartment of my luggage, while my laptop is packed inside the carry on.


Three outfit lessons I learned this past week:
It is fine wearing nylon in hot weather, as I find it more breathable than cotton, which can feel heavy especially when there is humidity
Not exactly an outfit lesson per se, but it is something that I keep close to my chest, but it is that owning your body and being confident with how you look really determines how you carry yourself. That way, you wear the outfit, and not the other way around.
Wool can be worn in summer (like I’d wear this piece pretty much all year round)
After my trip, I realized why in the past, it was such a struggle for me to find outfits for spring and summer seasons: I didn’t have my own personal style. For years, I was grasping at straws at what I thought was “pretty,” “weather appropriate,” or “acceptable.” I always let other people (family, media) influence me on what “beauty” was. I didn’t realize the most important thing, which is owning my body and building confidence.
No wonder I was so lost. Granted, fashion and style take trial and error, but the core of of figuring out style is knowing what you love and how to make it work for you based on your environment and principles that are important to you. Amy Smilovic has written about the importance of personal style before.